I also had a really long talk with my parents about with i'm going to do. we would all like to see me move out, but we also agree that it's best to clear my debts with them and creditors. i think this is best actually. i just need to cut down on spending money. if i can then switch into saving mode, i'll be doing great.
I have a lot of thoughts floating in my head about what i want to do, but i can't seem to write them yet. just give me some time.